Our Frugal Lifestyle

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Passionate about eco-frugality. I used to party hard, clubbing my way from pay-packet to pay-packet. Never getting ahead, just getting by. Then came our much wanted baby with no savings in the bank - only an old car. Changes were made to our lifestyle and we didn't turn back. In the past 6yrs we purchased a flat, found employment, lived below our means, built an emergency fund, purchased a reliable car and saw the financial benefits of our frugal lifestyle. Our only debt is our mortgage. Our aim is to manage our cash flow wisely, pay off our home quickly and eventually work for pleasure, not necessity. Join us on our journey, share insights, tips and tricks to help us and others to get ahead while having a good time.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

We Are Home

We have arrived home and I am so glad to be back. My family has been sick for over 10 days now and we just want to recoup in the tropics.

We have had a very severe case of gastro from Paris and are suffering from colds. We spent 25 hours in Singapore mainly sleeping and some eating. We stayed in the inexpensive Little India district.

Today The Rambling Expat and myself are off to work as jet lagged as we are - Dolly and I have been up since 3 am and I can see a long long day ahead of me.

I look forward to sharing photos of my trip with you.
And my frugal and non frugal holiday (I ate a lot of cheese!!!)

Monday, January 3, 2011

Bali Again

Couchsurfing in Bali

As I recounted a few posts back, Dolly and I spent 2 nights with a poor family in the mountains in Bali. We were their guest as a couchsurfers. Couchsurfing gives you an opportunity to share the lives people live in their own home.

I chose the Pat Jero family due to their location, social status and also due to them having a 4 year old daughter for Dolly to befriend. Dolly packed toys and clothing to give knowing the little girl had very little. I highly encourage couchsurfing to have a enriching travel experience.

I explained to Dolly that the family is very poor and are unable to purchase food or go to school sometimes due to this poverty. This is allowed her to reflect and ask thoughtful questions about her new friend and thinking of solutions in how she would like to help her new friend.
One child speaks French and English the other speaks Balinese and Indonesian - No language in common - Yet they had no problems playing and communicating with some of the gifts Dolly had brought from home.
The small home they own has a 2 small rooms, a kitchen and a small communal room where we played and ate on the floor. The outdoor traditonal toilets were a struggle for Dolly but made her see how lucky we are.
The House High In The Mountains - Plastic sheets to cover the glassless windows.
The squat toilets and shower area.
Offerings to the Gods. Shelter, food and drink.
Gateway to the small village. Dolly being carried by the mother of the house to avoid dogs and rabies.
My delicious meal of rice, choko, egg and a mix of garlic, lemongrass, ginger and chili. Fruits on offer from the garden; passionfruit and tamarillo.
I gave 25$ to the mother of the house to purchase a gas cooker as my studies on women in developing countries has taught me that the heavy smoke from the wood fire in the small kitchen is a high risk for lung cancer.

The father of the house saved me time and hassle by picking me up and dropping me off at different Bali locations on different side of the island on 3 occassions. I was thankful for this and left them 50$ as a thank you to cover fuel, time and his kindness. This is a large amount of money for them. To give you an idea the 18 year old son works every morning for 4 hours earning .50 cents per morning.
Sightseeing with our host. Dolly had given some of her dresses, leggings and hair clips to her new friend who wore them with happiness.
We had a great time.